Friday, August 18, 2017

Long Live the Queen: Bristol Renaissance Faire in Kenosha WI

Disclaimer: I received complimentary passes to attend the Bristol Renaissance Faire to facilitate this honest review. All opinions expressed below are 100% mine and mine alone unless otherwise stated. Please do your own research when looking into a product or service as your results may vary.

Who needs a Tardis to travel back in time when you can attend a Renaissance faire, complete with costumes, old timey entertainment inclusive of 16th century man-powered games and rides, weapon throwing, and music, delicious time period inspired foods, and so much more!

I mean, if you have access to The Doctor and the Tardis I'd very much love you forever and always but I digress...

Open every Saturday and Sunday (and Labor Day) from July 8th through September 4th, Bristol Renaissance Faire, located in Kenosha, Wisconsin and voted the number one Renaissance faire in the nation, takes you back in time to the 1500's when Queen Elizabeth ruled England, when people were still allowed to throw tomatoes at an insult comedian, and where jousting to the death was still a pretty big thing.

This year was a very special milestone for Bristol; all Summer they're celebrating their 30th anniversary! In celebration of this momentous milestone, they added a little twist to their normal festivities: Theme weekends.

RennCon weekend, Steampunk Invasion weekend, Celtic weekend, Fantasy weekend, and Swashbuckler weekend, oh my! As you can see from above my friends and I were able to go on Steampunk Invasion weekend and I had so much fun putting together my costume for the affair it was downright ridiculous.

Town of Bristol

Ever since I heard of this particular ren fair, and with it being SO close, I've wanted to go and experience a honest-to-goodness Renaissance faire. I've heard snippets from one person or another, media outlets, movies, books and it has always sounded like such a fun thing to experience in person.

I've been dying to go to this ren faire for the last several years but due to health issues it sadly kept having to be rescheduled. Last year I came pretty close but alas, close is only acceptable in horseshoes and hand grenades.

This year though I finally, finally, make it to the town of Bristol and it absolutely did not disappoint! In fact it exceeded my expectations one hundred fold. I had no idea just how BIG this place actually was, not to mention everything they offered. They have 21 stages and areas where things are happening at any given time throughout the day, rows and rows of little food vendors, quaint little shops, fun games, and more all located within their gorgeous 30-acre lot. 

Seriously, you physically and literally cannot catch everything in a single day there. Trust me, I tried!

Ye Olde Sustenance

Once inside the town of Bristol, you walk straight ahead for a little while and you'll happen upon something beautiful: Food. Glorious, wondrous food of all shapes, sizes, and ethnicities. One member of our group chose to nosh on a giant turkey leg (and I do mean giant) while another went to hunt down a portabella  mushroom burger. Another friend wasn't too hungry so she just got a slice of pizza and I chose to get a chicken pastie.

There's no outside food or drinks allowed in so you'll most likely be searching down something that tickles your fancy if you get hungry but worry not, there's plenty to choose from!

Bristol also has quite a few alcohol options for the adults throughout the grounds alongside the food. One of the events you can take part in is their Bristol Pub Crawl, those tickets just cost extra on top of regular admission. Another first for me was getting to finally try absinthe for the first time in my life. I've always been curious to try it and now I can finally say I did.

That stuff packs a wallop!

While they did offer some vegetarian, vegan, and gluten free options I do wish there was a bit more to choose from for people that have to watch what they eat like myself.

Venture Forth & Shop

Food stands aside, everywhere you look is another one of the 200 small shops and independent vendors selling anything you could possibly need or want. If you're in the 1500's (and possibly a bit later) that is! Costume and clothing shops, some of which do daily rentals, jewelry everywhere, leather journals, scented candles and soap, weapons galore...If you have a budget this is where it will be tested.

I had seen Pendragon Jewelry ads weeks prior to the faire and had a strict mission to find them once there. Having a sparkling, jewel encrusted soul, they did not disappoint either.

I literally walked into their shop and almost cried. No joke.

Sadly the pieces I really wanted were out of my price range so I opted to splurge on myself since I had been waiting for this opportunity for so long and purchase a large Viking throwing knife from Sabersmith who do some absolutely stunning sword, knife, and weapon crafting.

I'll be saving my pennies for next year and Pendragon Jewelry, I'm coming for you...

Theater, Bards, & Joust to the Death

The entertainment throughout the day at Bristol is second to none! With over 20 stages, areas, and arenas hosting some sort of show or special event you have plenty of things to choose from between your eating and shopping.

Minus the people playing music sporadically throughout the grounds and a few things I passed while they were happening, by the time I realized how many shows I could have been going to it was too late and I was only able to attend one or two towards the latter half of the day but they were both beyond worth it!

My favorite of all was accidentally being in the right spot at the right time for Lauren Murray's (also known as @silkelephant Instagram) aerial silks show. Talk about fangirling HARD.

If you didn't know this about me already being good enough at things like this so I can join a circus and perform is one of my biggest dreams and seeing how Lauren mastered her craft just inspired me that much more to work towards my dream!

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We can't forget the ending to our day! Alisa of and I were able to catch the very last jousting show of the day ominously deemed 'Joust to the Death.' Another first, I had never been able to see one of these shows before so I was quite excited we made it in time!

Our knight in shining green armor, Sir Vinchenzo, apparently was the underdog of the show and hadn't won a tournament all weekend so obviously I was rooting extra hard for him.

I tend to always go for the underdogs.

And wouldn't you know it, he won! But was viciously attacked soon after by another unhappy knight which lead to a sword battle to the death...

Worry not fair gents and maidens, he won that, too!

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Play and Be Merry

Any self respecting fair, whether it be a current 2017 state fair (tis the season after all) or a renaissance faire set in the 1500's has games and rides for all who want to play, children and kids-at-heart alike!

Of course back in the 16th century there was no electricity to power games or rides so all throughout Bristol are "muscle powered"; getting a wooden ball through a wooden maze by maneuvering ropes and pulleys, strong man mallet and bell competition, a forty foot castle rock climbing course, digging for buried treasure...Not to mention the purely badass thrones you can sit on and pose with inclusive of a larger-than-life unicorn, a fierce looking kraken, an industrial steampunk throne, and a few others.

My eye was immediately caught by all the weapon type games; knife throwing, archery, and even learning how to fence. One of the gentleman of our group wanted to do knife throwing so I was definitely down and even hit the bullseye on one of my throws!

All in all, if I have my way this is going to be a highly anticipated yearly occurrence because I loved this faire that much. Heck, if I could I'd work there myself! I had been waiting for quite a long time to get to experience it and not only am I finally happy I got to go, nothing has exceeded my initial expectations this much before.

I also have to give a shout out to the wonderful people who work at Bristol as well both on the front lines and behind the scenes; I had seen several instances during my stay there where they really went above and beyond to show their audience and faire goers it's all about us and their enjoyment, especially when it came to handicap accessibility which, even though I was well enough to walk around this time, I highly appreciate.

My Top 5 Things to Knoweth:

5. Dress up! There's nothing more fun than hitting up thrift stores or your own closet on your own or with a friend and putting together an outfit fit for the time period you're traveling to. Not only that but most ren faires that I know of highly encourage dressing up and speaking the language! Bristol does have costume rentals through several of their merchants if you just don't have the time to create your own.

4. Don't feel bad about splurging. Yes, even though I got complimentary tickets it was an expensive day for me between the travel, food and drink, games, and souvenir. Just know ahead of time you're more than likely going to be spending a good chunk of money. If that's a problem set yourself a budget and try to stick with it!

3.  Immerse yourself. Dress up. Brush up on ye olde English. Throw those tomatoes at the insult comic. Dance around the maypole. Go pet the unicorn. This is what you're going there to be apart of!

2. Have a game plan. I knew that there were several different stages with different shows and things going on but little did I know the plethora I was actually walking in to! You would probably have to go at least 3 to 4 weekends if you wanted to catch everything, a day just didn't cut it.

1. Wear comfortable shoes. As stated above I had no idea how large Bristol was; you could be there all day and spend a majority of it walking around from one end to the other (or in circles) either looking for a specific place or each other. And we did. My puppies were barking by the end of the day!

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Friday, June 23, 2017

Getting My Cuddles On At Cat Cafe Madison

I've always loved and wanted to own a cat (or cats) as far back as I can remember but sadly due to my mom being highly allergic and being allergic myself, that particular life goal has not yet happened. I still keep hope alive though!

That means when I happen to come across any sort of cat they automatically get all my brimming-over unused kitty-cat loves and affection. Let's be honest, even if I did achieve my dream of owning cats, I'd still fangirl at any sort of four legged furry creature that crosses my path.

But in the great words of Sophia Petrillo, I digress. When a friend and I headed up to Madison for the Spring Polish Festival earlier in April and decided to make a day of exploring the area, what immediately came to my mind but Cat Cafe Madison!

Took a trip to #Madison and discovered Cat Cafe Madison, a cafe where cuddling with the over 20 cats is encouraged! #travel #Wisconsin

I'm not sure how I came across Cat Cafe Mad initially but I do remember several months back finding it and becoming smitten like a kitten with the whole idea of it.

I don't make it to Madison that often (the last time was back in 2011 when I was still seeing a homeopathic doctor in the area) so the knowledge of this furry paradise just sat on the back burner of my brain until this particular trip. It also helped that my friend Alisa of is a huge cat lover, too!

Monday, June 19, 2017

12 Things I've Learned When Dealing with Chronic Pain

Pain is a strange thing.

Growing up, a certain amount of pain is as normal a part of our childhood as breathing is. Much like breathing, pain is involuntary and inevitable. We get sick, we break bones and skin knees, we get shots. And lets not forget not just the physical pain we experience but the emotional pain as well.

As children we sometimes don't know how to deal with the physical or the emotional pain we go through. Normal reactions are to panic, scream, and cry; maybe sometimes even lash out. We're scared because we don't know what's happening, we just know it's not a pleasant feeling and we want it to stop immediately.

The older we get, the more we come to understand pain a little bit more, the types of things that cause it, and we have more of a grip on how to manage it. For example if we break another bone, experience has taught us that we go to the emergency room, the doctor sets the broken bone, gives us a cast, and that cast is on for 6 to 8 weeks (or more) depending. Perhaps we're sick with the flu, we're prescribed and take our medication, a few days pass and we get better and then we move on lives.

Chronic pain isn't even on our radar so nobody tells you when you're a kid, or even an adult for that matter, that there is so much more depth to pain than we initially realize.

Monday, April 24, 2017

Dzień Dobry: Madison's Polish Heritage Club Spring Festival

A little background about my lineage. While I know I have a wee bit of Irish in me along with German and maybe one or two other things (I really don't know that much about my ancestry), I know without a single doubt in my mind I'm VERY Polish.

When I say I'm very Polish, I mean my paternal grandparents, lovingly referred to as my Babcia (grandmother in Polish) and Dziadzia (Americanized Polish pronunciation for grandfather) actually migrated from Poland in the 1950's. My father and both Ciocias (aunts in Polish) grew up in a Polish speaking household and thus, my sister and I grew up with a lot of the customs and learning a little bit of the language.

Thanks to my good friend Alisa of, I was able to reconnect with my Polish girl roots and attend Madison's Polish Heritage Club's Polish Spring Festival earlier this month!

Friday, February 3, 2017

My Depression Struggles & Finding Joy: The Happiness Perspective Book Review

Disclaimer: I received a copy of The Happiness Perspective by Diane Wing to facilitate this review on Kay's Adaptable Adventures. All opinions are 100% mine and mine alone unless otherwise stated. Please do your own research on a product or service as your results may vary.

How do people find #happiness and, more importantly, keep happiness? My review of Diane Wing's The Happiness Perspective touches on my personal struggles with #depression and how happiness IS attainable!

Author: Diane Wing
ISBNN-13: 9781615993208
Page Count: 132 pages
Publisher: Loving Healing Press
Release Date: November 2016


Happiness is not just another emotion and state of being that most individuals find unachievable in this day and age of violence, illness, constant go-go-go and stressors, but a conscious and subconscious choice people can and do achieve as hard as that is to believe. Throughout The Happiness Perspective, Diane Wing (author of Thorne Manor & Other Bizarre Tales, Trips to the Edge: Tales of the Unexpected, and The True Nature of Energy) beautifully outlines just how people can realistically achieve this tranquil state of being by compiling different ways to help you transform your daily thought processes, patterns, habits, and behaviors so you can experience greater happiness and peace of mind in this crazy world.